Anyone who has been in a committed relationship for a while knows that it is a common reality to feel more in love than ever one day, and then spend the next wanting to slap your spouse over something seemingly unimportant. So, why is that? And how do we get passed those bad times and back to those so-in-love moments faster? After 10 years with my guy, I’ve decided that the key is learning how to prevent everyday problems from hijacking your relationship. I truly believe that if more couples could master this there would be more happy people and less divorce.